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Daughter of the One true king, wife, mother, educator, DD, Christian blogger

#discernment #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

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#discernment #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

#discernment #waterwalkinggirls

How do I know what’s on the other side of the door? Should I open the door and go through? What if I make the wrong choice? How can I discern the will of God?

Have you ever had these questions swirling through your head when you are in the midst of making a decision?  I certainly have!  

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#anxiety #worry #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

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#anxiety #worry #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

#anxiety #worry #waterwalkinggirls
On Sunday I made my first post on anxiety and worry and then drove to a nearby Walmart. Walmart pick-up is one of my biggest blessings! Although I was out of town, I trusted that picking up groceries would still be a breeze. As I pulled into my parking space I decided to turn off my engine in case it took longer than I was accustomed to. Shortly a young lady came out and loaded the groceries in my car and went on her way. I fastened my seat belt and pushed the button to start my car. Nothing happened. I took a deep breath and tried again. After my third try I realized the battery must be dead. I have to admit, normally I would have gotten upset. I was not in my hometown, I didn’t know anyone, and my husband was 2 miles down the road without a vehicle to come help me. I began to pray and God immediately reminded me that the words for the week were anxiety and worry and we were not going to let Satan win this battle. I took a deep breath, called my husband Clark and then texted several friends and ask them to pray. When the young lady came back out of the building to help another customer she was surprised to see me still sitting there. I explained what was going on and asked if she or someone else had some jumper cables and could jump off my car. She said she would go check. She was gone for maybe 5 minutes but it seemed more like 50. The entire time she was gone I was battling with Satan so I would be able to stay calm and not get upset. When she returned she told me another employee was pulling her car around. As the car pulled around I praised God for kind people. Out stepped another young lady who handed me a box of brand new jumper cables and said, “These are for you!” I initially thought she just meant that she wanted me to open them for her as she opened the hood of her car. She then said she was going to switch places with the young lady who initially helped me because she knew more about this kind of thing. The next process took at least 20 minutes as my battery was apparently dead as a door nail. I sat in my car praying that this would work and at the same time thanking God for these Good Samaritans. Finally my car started! As we put down the hoods of the cars I rolled up the jumper cables and tried to hand them to the young lady. She said, “No, you keep them. She bought them for you to have in your car.” Tears came to my eyes and I wanted to hug the young lady, but as you know, I couldn’t because of Coronavirus. I was overwhelmed with joy and thankfulness. As I got in my car I took a picture of the parking place I was in so I could later share with you my battle with anxiety and how the kindness of strangers helped me in a time of need.
The Message version of Proverbs 12:25 reads: “Worry weighs us down; a cheerful word picks us up.” Every single person has their own battles going on today. Every single person struggles with anxiety or worry at some point. Right now our world has so many troubles that affect us all and can cause us anxiety. How can you and I help pick others up? We can be kind. We can share cheerful words. I know at this time we are not out and about or around others which makes it harder to impact others. We have to think outside of the box to be intentional. So today, brainstorm ways you can help lift the weight of anxiety that others are carrying. Send a cheerful text. Make a phone call and share kind words. Write an encouraging note and mail it to someone. Make a positive and uplifting post on social media. Let’s you and I help one another with the battle of anxiety and worry. “Fear not” is in the Bible 365 times which indicates how prevalent this battle is for each of us. Listen to the words of this song called “I will Fear No More.” May these words be uplifting and strength giving for you today.
I Will Fear No More by: The Afters
Side note #1: I once had jumper cables in my car and after years of having them they broke. Apparently we had never replace them.
Side note #2: As soon as I returned to our Airbnb house Clark took my car and bought a new battery.

#words #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

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#words #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

#words #waterwalkinggirls
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
Words are important. Google “words” in scripture and you will see how much importance is put on our words. Timing, tone, and word choice are all addressed in scripture. There is a time to speak up and a time to be quiet. Proverbs 31:8-9 tells us: “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy” while Proverbs 21:23 instructs: “Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.” Bottom line: words are important.

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#voiceoftruth #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

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#voiceoftruth #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

#voiceoftruth #waterwalkinggirls
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
The writer of scriptureand.blogspot.com wrote: “There is a choice repeatedly laid before mankind. Choose to listen, obey, and trust God’s voice or listen to other voices (including your own). “ This week as I have read about and meditated on the word truth, Satan has been at work whispering lies in my ear and trying to sway me from the real Truth and trying to get me to listen to my own voice. Every now and then I would lose my focus and allow anxiety to sneak in and upset me. Rachel Hollis says, “Anxiety is fear of a made up future.” Therefore when Satan is wagging his tongue and trying to induce anxiety we must stop letting the wheels of our brain turn and turn thinking about all the what ifs. Instead we must listen to the voice of truth. Where can we turn to hear the voice of truth?

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#attitude #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

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#attitude #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

#attitude #waterwalkinggirls

Attitude: (noun) a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person’s behavior. Similar words: point of view, vantage point, perspective, frame of mind.

I was grumpy. Circumstances had not gone as planned. The more I thought about my circumstances the more upset I became and the more my attitude was plummeting. What could I do to get out of this funk? I texted two Christian friends and shared with them how I was feeling. Each offered words of encouragement. Each prayed for me. Each reminded me who I am and whose I am. To be honest, I did not immediately have a change of attitude but I was able to grapple my way out of the hole that I had begun to dig.

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#delay #immeasurablymore #flipyourfocus #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

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#delay #immeasurablymore #flipyourfocus #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

#delay #immeasurablymore #flipyourfocus #waterwalkinggirls

When parts of my life seem to be stuck in a delay I find that waiting is hard. What about you? As I wait it seems some days go by so quickly. Other days seem to drip away as slowly as molasses. I know in my heart that God’s timing will be perfect but the wheels in my head keep spinning the questions: When, what if, why, how long? If I am not careful I could allow myself to slip into a tornado of questioning and doubting. However, in my delay God has taught me to rely on Him and to flip my focus.

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#overcome #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

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#overcome #waterwalkinggirls by: Deborah Ard

#overcome #waterwalkinggirls

The last few days have been particularly difficult for me emotionally. The news that schools will remain closed for the remainder of the year was hard to hear. I had expected that would be the decision. I understand the decision. I even agree with the decision. However hearing the Governor make the announcement made it real. As I process the ramifications of all that is taking place I feel as if I am in mourning. I am grieving the loss of time with my kindergarten students, the loss of baseball season, the loss of dance class, the loss of Preston’s first year of high school and Briley’s first year of middle school. I miss going to church and my church family. I miss routine and schedule. What about you? What are you grieving?

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